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blodeueddThere's something so thrillingly intimate about being slightly tipsy (not drunk, this week!) and moving against your lover in a crowded club, especially when the music is mostly pulse-like drum beats.
My life, one year ago... I'm still as busy now (if not more so), but it's now much more of the spend-lots-of-time-with-one-person kind of busy than the do-stuff-with-a-bunch-of-people variety. My social life has changed on that level, for one, and also in that there are some people I saw an awful lot of last year that I've hardly seen at all (if at all) since the spring.
I think this is the first time in my life that I've been avoided (like the plague!) to my face. I know of a couple of instances of people disliking me, but I always heard about it from someone else; this kind of reaction is new to me. Sadly, I can't even say that I care. I used to call this person a friend, but this kind of behaviour is so ridiculous that I have no regrets whatsoever.
I decided to go ahead and forego two days' worth of pay in the interest of staying home, hopefully doing some cleaning (read: change my sheets, vacuum, throw out papers I don't need), delivering a gift and buying the last few gifts I want to give.
So let's see... a week and a half off, 2 parties and definitely some going out to dine and dance. I WILL get a chance to wear all my pretty dresses, purses and strappy sandals, dammit! And then, so help me, I think I'll have to go out and buy more.
Might I add that I'm not much impressed by livejournal's spell checker, it doesn't recognize "forego". Collins does.
My life, one year ago... I'm still as busy now (if not more so), but it's now much more of the spend-lots-of-time-with-one-person kind of busy than the do-stuff-with-a-bunch-of-people variety. My social life has changed on that level, for one, and also in that there are some people I saw an awful lot of last year that I've hardly seen at all (if at all) since the spring.
I think this is the first time in my life that I've been avoided (like the plague!) to my face. I know of a couple of instances of people disliking me, but I always heard about it from someone else; this kind of reaction is new to me. Sadly, I can't even say that I care. I used to call this person a friend, but this kind of behaviour is so ridiculous that I have no regrets whatsoever.
I decided to go ahead and forego two days' worth of pay in the interest of staying home, hopefully doing some cleaning (read: change my sheets, vacuum, throw out papers I don't need), delivering a gift and buying the last few gifts I want to give.
So let's see... a week and a half off, 2 parties and definitely some going out to dine and dance. I WILL get a chance to wear all my pretty dresses, purses and strappy sandals, dammit! And then, so help me, I think I'll have to go out and buy more.
Might I add that I'm not much impressed by livejournal's spell checker, it doesn't recognize "forego". Collins does.
